Confession

If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9 HCSB https://bible.com/bible/72/1jn.1.9.HCSB

Confession is good for the soul; being honest with ourselves and others heals us. Being able to talk about our shortcomings and mistakes is cleansing for us. Get it and conqueror.

Pretending all is ok so as to 'keep peace' is not good. Making peace through confrontation is better.

Be open and honest with each other. Make the change!