'No'

1 John 4:21 (MSG) The command we have from Christ is blunt: Loving God includes loving people. You've got to love both.

Recently I have been the subject of intense hatred by someon very close to me. This hatred was fuelled by offense. I had offended by saying 'No'.

I discovered that saying 'no' can cause huge problems and yet it was right to say no. I therefore own a word that carries great power.

In loving others sometimes we have to stand by our 'no', and honour it and watch the salvation of the Lord.

I had recently completed a Boundaries course and knew conflict was coming but little did I know how great that conflict would be.

Yet as I stand by my 'no' my God goes to work in me, showing me that even if all hell rages against me I can stand because He did.

Sometimes the act of love is perceived as harsh and confrontive but although it is strong medicine it works.

There is a God and he is not me. Vengence belongs to the Lord not me. I can trust Him to move on my behalf and He does. He is great. Amen!

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