Every parent hopes that by raising children in 'the way they should go', would ensure that their values become the values of their children. Unfortunately this is not so. For whatever reason, children form their own frame of reference. If they rebel against parental influence they will adopt peer values.
When children grow and are married they merge with their spouse's values. Parents will look at their adult children and see a composite of all that went into moulding their children's characters.
As a parent with adult children I have had to step back and allow for the merging and not give advice, unsolicited. My opinion is only valuable is sought.
I also have to be careful that unspoken opinions are not evident as, daughter-in-laws that were not raised in my home will take offense, when none is intended.
I watch the values passed on to my grandchildren and some I hear from way back, from my own mouth. Others I find new and interesting. However, one thing I do want to see is grandchildren raised with the desire for God and the knowledge of his ways.
Yesterday I was reading bible stories to two grandsons and one said: "Nanny I have not heard God's voice, ever!" We then talked about hearing God's voice and the importance of asking Him into our hearts.
My prayer is that my grandchildren find their Lord, above all else. Amen!
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