Single Life

I say to the unmarried and to widows: It is good for them if they remain as I am. But if they do not have self-control, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with desire. ! Cor 7:8

Divorcees are not mentioned, but. I think we could join this group. I know as a divorcee, early on in the divorce, desire was prevalent. However, the longer that desire is unmet and the longer I have to gain self-control, I am grateful. So many disasters I would have joined, but now I know a little insight and wisdom.
 
What are the challenges? Loneliness; desire for sex, or should I say, intimacy; fear of failure; fear of further rejection; grief; shame to name a few. None are life threatening, none are not able to be overcome.
 
I now have more friends, greater diversity of interests, freedom, and greater sense of worth. I don't need someone to share my interests, I have them or enjoy my solitude. I remember as a child I loved going, by myself, exploring down the creek and imagining all wonder of different worlds. Now I climb my hill with my dog.
 
I am about to travel to Nepal with a friend and am planning to do a trek. I want to travel to China and India. There are precious people on every corner of the globe and I want to meet them.
 
We can be so inwardly focussed and miss the greatest of opportunities. I hope to paraglide in Nepal. As I have done this here in Australia I know what a joy this past time brings. I plan to make new friends in Nepal as we rebuild a home for some orphans.
 
Get up and go and have an adventure. Amen!
 
 

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