Families and Friends

A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a difficult time.
Proverbs 17:17 HCSB

Some of my most difficult times have come from family. They know me more and therefore expect more as a right. Families know how to fight.

Jesus had this problem. His brothers did not believe in Him until after the resurrection. In the gospels we see them cajoling Him. Was there jealousy there, resentment and offence? Probably!

If the Son of God had this problem, we are not likely to escape.

Last night I saw four sisters at a conference. Looking at them all I saw resemblance. They share common genes. I could see on their faces how this bond had affected them. Some looked worn and troubled. Two of these ladies are in my church and I already know some of what goes on between them. Even in families conflict happens and so do misunderstandings.

My family is the same. Probably yours is as well. Friends have not lived so close. Friends are places we escape to, away from family. Friends are safe havens. However we need both. One keeps us humble and one encourages us.

Jesus had three close friends and one very close friend. One of his close friends denied Him. So...hey! Noone is perfect but God alone! Amen!