Steel Against Steel

You use steel to sharpen steel, and one friend sharpens another.
Proverbs 27:17 MSG

Note steel to sharpen steel. If you have two strong wills then dont be surprised that sparks will fly!

Having a strong willed friend or spouse is not bad for you, it hones you and makes you a better person.

Self-pity for not getting your own way is wasted resource. Use it to care about Gods kingdom or a lost friend. Get over it! Amen!